Before I begin: Please note that in this article I am not talking about Instagram influencers (as in people who are paid to promote certain products or destinations on their Instagram pages). I am talking about the people who do not take on any brand deals or legit modelling gigs but yet still seem to live the life of an influencer. It should also be noted that this article is not for the faint of heart and is not suitable for anybody under the age of 18! Okay? So let’s begin.
Have you ever looked at an ‘Instagram model’ and wondered how she affords to travel the world constantly without seeming to have a job or any actual modelling work? Have you ever looked at these 10/10 girls and wondered how they are able to spend their time in private jets and sunning themselves on super yachts without ever taking on paid promotions or creating any content that requires an actual skill?
HAVE YOU EVER WONDERED why, in these girls’ bios, there is often an email address for ‘booking inquiries’ despite the fact that these people are not actual influencers or models. These girls do not work with tourism boards or promote fancy hotels. They STAY in fancy hotels, sure, but they are not being paid to promote them.
HAVE YOU EVER WONDERED WHAT THE F IS GOING ON WITH THAT?
Well, dear readers, I am here to tell you that if you see a drop dead gorgeous girl with 100k followers on Instagram drinking cocktails in Dubai, there is a very high probability that she is being shit on by a rich Arab.
Instagram Models Exposed
Allow me to explain.
Sex work is not new. Since the dawn of time, women and men have been using their bodies to make bank. It is no great surprise to me that hot young women are capitalising on what God gave them in order to travel the world and make 5 figures a night.
In my opinion, if a woman chooses to work in the sex industry then more power to her. The sex industry is perhaps the ONLY industry where women make more money than men (a lot more), where there are no entry requirements, and where a woman can set her own hours, rates and choose what services she does and does not provide. Seriously, if you wanna be a sex worker then YOU DO YOU GIRL. (I actually wrote more about this topic in my article about cam girls, just in case you’re interested.)
It is also of no great surprise to me that sex work has shifted into the digital age. Digitalising sex work allows women to be safer (for example escort websites allow the sex worker to ‘vet’ the clients online before a meeting), and also allows them to do sex work from within the comforts of their own home (for example webcam modelling or adult phone lines).
Something ELSE that is of no great surprise to me is that sexually repressed cultures have some seriously messed up citizens. Seriously, if you want to create a whole society of perverts then make human sexuality taboo and you will be amazed how creative people can get. This may not be politically correct but it is true, don’t come for me.
With these three things in mind, you would think that what I am about to tell you came as no great surprise to me.
However, JUST WHEN I THOUGHT DUBAI COULD NOT GET ANY WORSE, it outdid itself.
Not being content with luring foreign workers to the UAE under false pretences of swanky apartments and great salaries before forcing them to work as slaves, Dubai has decided that actually, forced labour is so last year.
The ‘in thing’ in Dubai is a phenomenon that has come to be known as the Dubai Porta Potty.
So, I’m sure you’re wondering, exactly what is a Dubai Porta Potty?
Well ladies and gents, Dubai has decided that what is WAY MORE FUN than gross human rights abuses and modern slavery is paying Instagram models to let you do horrible horrible things to them, and I’m not just talking about a little 50 Shades action here. No. In the Persian Gulf, things get reeeeeeal weird.
So, how does this all work?
Well, If you’re a rich Arab in the UAE (or perhaps a Saudi Royal) and you want to see just how low women from the West will sink in order to make a few bucks, it’s really very simple. You browse Instagram for the hottest girl you can find and then invite her to Dubai for a 30,000 USD paid holiday that she can post about to all of her adoring followers. And what does she have to do in return?
Well, the choice is yours.
Do you want to take a tonne of laxatives and take a dump on her chest? Do you wanna see just how happy she can make your 2 million dollar camel? Maybe you want her to put A LIVE SALMON IN YOUR ASS.
Well worry thee not, because in Dubai, anything is possible.
You don’t have to take my word for it. A few years ago a website named TagTheSponsor decided to expose Instagram models, and it didn’t take long for it to be inundated with screenshots of these girls agreeing to do all sorts of lurid acts for $. Tag The Sponsor features images and videos of hot young girls agreeing to do everything from pleasure camels to ‘have sex with’ (ie rape) 11 year old boys who ‘need to become men.’
The way that this all works is that the rich Emirate/Saudi/whoever will browse Instagram looking for a girl that takes his fancy. He will then send a direct message or email to the girl asking if she wants to go to Dubai for an all expenses paid trip. Usually the girls know the drill and they immediately begin talking numbers. The guy will offer around 5k for ‘normal’ sex, but then very quickly will start talking about how he will pay big money if she will indulge his fetishes. The fetishes are listed, the girl agrees (usually on video, as proof that she is consenting, which is a murky issue that we will cover later), and she also agrees to sign an NDA.
The girl is then flown out to the UAE and that’s where the magic happens. In addition to doing whatever humiliating acts the man wants her to do, she will make sure to get a few snaps of herself on his yacht or in his jet and she will post the pictures to Instagram to flex her lavish lifestyle.
Of course, seeing pictures of a hot girl sipping Champage in a private jet is a perfectly innocent image to most people, but to those in the know, these pictures are a marketing ploy. The girls will list their locations as ‘London/Dubai,’ include an email address for ‘booking inquiries’ in their profile, and feature countless images of themselves living it up in Dubai, (images that mysteriously never feature other people, especially men).
Once you know the signs, it is very easy to spot a girl who is involved, especially when you take a peek at who they are following and the people who comment on their photos (hint – it’s usually wealthy Emirates).
I know what you’re thinking. You’re thinking that this is all a hoax, and that just because these girls SAY they will do these things, there is no proof that they have actually done them. It is indeed true that many of the people sending screenshots to Tag The Sponsor are actually just regular guys pretending to be rich Sheikhs in order to lead the girl into saying some incriminating things.
(Also, fun fact – I have been contacted on numerous occasions on Instagram and Twitter by rich men from the UAE asking if I want to be flown out there and ‘party’ with them for $30,000. At the time I figured it was sex work related but I had no idea of the true depravity that goes down on these trips – oh how I am glad I never responded!)
Anyway, in response to those that see all of this as a hoax, let me insert a quote from an anonymous Instagram model who decided to tell Atlanta Celebrity News* about her experiences with Saudi Royals.
She says:
‘I’ve literally been pissed on and shitted on so many times I just don’t understand why they like it (after the third time you get shit on you get used to it). I’ve had to have sex with a German Shepard dog in front of [Saudi Royalty]. I’ve got paid to eat shit. I’ve got paid to get beat up. I even had to stick a live salmon in some 65 year old man’s ass. I’ve had sex with 14 year old boys to make them men. I’ve smeared my face with their shit. So to all of you ladies that are going to bash me, I’m 24 years old and have 1 million dollars liquid in my bank account. I’m now retired and can have normal sex with whoever I want.’
Okay.
Okay.
There is a lot to unpack here so let’s break this down a little.
There are people in this world who have a lot more money than 1 million dollars and they AREN’T having sex with German Shepherds.
First off, do you realise how many people have MILLIONS AND MILLIONS (lol unintentional Trump quote my bad) of dollars in their bank accounts that DIDN’T have to smear some Saudi Royal’s shit on their faces?!
Do you understand that if you are not business minded, 1 million dollars can disappear LIKE THAT?? I’m going to go out on a limb and say that this chick will be broke when she’s 30. She will continue living the high life, vacationing in the UAE and blowing $30,000 a night on hotel rooms, and before she knows it, she will be broke once more.
Rape is wrong
For some reason, this woman thinks that anybody who disagrees with her lifestyle is just a person that wants to ‘bash’ her because they are jealous. Well, I am here to say that I am not some lady that wants to ‘bash’ you because I’m jealous. If you wanna screw your way to a million bucks then YOU DO YOU and get that money.
HOWEVER.
If your ‘job’ involves beastiality and child rape then I’m afraid you can’t be on your high horse (oh god, excuse the pun).
I am honestly fine with the idea that women are allowing rich dudes to defecate on them. If you’re okay with it then so am I. Kink shaming is not my bag, and just because I PERSONALLY don’t want a dude shitting on my face, I really couldn’t care less if you want to accept money for that. I mean, it’s a dirty job and all but someone’s gotta do it I guess, lol.
However, when you bring camels, dogs and children to the table then this is where you lose the right to defend your actions. A dog cannot consent to sex. A child cannot consent to sex. I don’t care if some dude is paying you to do these things. The bottom line is that you are raping children and animals, and that is not okay in any country, culture or universe.
If someone wanted to pay you to kill somebody, would you do it? This may sound like an extreme example but I am using it to illustrate the fact that just because you are being PAID to do something does not make it legitimate and it does not absolve you from responsibility.
Working as a Dubai Porta Potty is not safe
Sex work is one of the most dangerous jobs on the planet. Even high class escorts working with agencies often become victims of violence, rape and murder. Even ONLINE sex work is not without its risks. Countless webcam girls have been doxxed, stalked and harassed because the bottom line is that the biggest threat to a woman’s safety is a man (sorry but it’s true) and women in the sex industry are incredibly vulnerable to danger.
So then, if even webcam girls and high class escorts are in danger, what about girls flying thousands of miles away (to countries with shocking human rights abuses), signing NDAs and being locked in rooms with ROYALTY?
Do you honestly believe that if these dudes were not happy for some reason, or felt as though they were going to be exposed, that they would actually hesitate in making these women disappear? Please do not underestimate just what these men will do to protect themselves.
What’s more, do you seriously think that these girls are able to go to the police if they get into trouble on any of these trips?
Of course not!
Women in Dubai can GO TO PRISON IF THEY ARE RAPED because sex outside of marriage is illegal.
How do you think it would go if a woman being paid for sex alleged that a Emirate billionaire had raped her?
How do you think it would go if a woman who MADE A VIDEO CONSENTING TO BEING PAID TO HAVE SEX WITH CHILDREN AND ANIMALS then alleges she was raped?
It wouldn’t go well. It wouldn’t go well at all.
I am not exaggerating when I say that these women are putting their lives on the line for a few thousand bucks and some nice designer handbags.
I am not exaggerating when I say that these women are committing horrendous crimes for the sake of a trip to Dubai.
This is not me bashing women or sex workers.
This is not me being antifeminist.
This is me standing up for what is right, and speaking out against what is wrong.
It is wrong of these men to do these things to women, but it is also wrong of these women to do what they are doing. They are not just putting themselves at risk, but they are harming others in the process, and I simply cannot sit back and say ‘her body her choice!’ or ‘sex work is work!’ when talking about this particular phenomenon.
If I could say anything to the women who are doing this, it would be this – think about what you are doing. Have a long, hard think about the things that you are doing for money and ask yourself whether this is just sex work, or whether it is something darker, something more dangerous, and something that you can justify when you go to bed at night.
And, that’s the end folks. I couldn’t think of a fitting conclusion for this (believe it or not, this topic isn’t something I’m used to writing about), and all that my immature mind can come up with is camel puns (I mean, do you think these girls will get the hump with me if they read this article?).
So, terrible jokes aside, I’m just going to leave you with the Tag The Sponsor website and allow to you go down the bizarre rabbit hole that is the Dubai Porta Potties.
Have at it.
Click here to be directed to Tag The Sponsor.
Books You Might Enjoy!
Although there isn’t a whole lot of other information about Dubai porta potties specifically out there, there are definitely a lot of books that you might find interesting if you want to know more about life in the Middle East, the treatment of women in the Middle East, how it is to live as an expat in the Emirates or Saudi Arabia, and much more!
Just click the links below to be taken to the Amazon pages where you can learn more about the books I found!
Burqalicious – The Dubai Diaries – A True Story of Sun, Sand, Sex and Secrecy
Dubai High: A Culture Trip
Maid in Dubai
Headscarves and Hymens: Why the Middle East Needs a Sexual Revolution
The Hidden Face of Eve: Women in the Arab World
Sex and the Citadel: Intimate Life in a Changing Arab World
Remaking Women: Feminism and Modernity in the Middle East
A Year Under Sharia Law: Memoir of an American Couple Living and Working in Saudi Arabia
Inside the Kingdom
*Since I began my research for this article, the Atlanta Celebrity News website has deleted the original article. However, the quote remains on several other websites, I just no longer have access to the original source.
Very well written! Thanks for the tips!?!
Well… shallow ppl do shallow things. No surprise.
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My favourite article of yours so far!! A real eye opener! Thanks Dani, keep up the good work girl!! ❤️ Love from Sydney, ??
Putting salmon just in an ass is such a waste.
I hope they cook it afterwards. Hate wasting food. 😡
Hahahahahahaha
I would love to be a model also
Sometimes I wish Westerners who love to criticize The Gulf would equally turn a mirror on themselves and criticize their own countries; where they basically invented porn, fetish, domestic violence, gender discrimination, S&M, drug and alcohol abuse and dependency…. this article is sick about a horrific thing that happens rarely in the Gulf, but commonplace in Germay. Why do you think they are able to “buy” foreign women to do these acts? The author comes off as judgy when this shit and piss and beastiality happens everywhere, even in her back yard. What a waste of words.
Haha, I come off as judgy in this article because I AM being judgy 😉 but if you read it properly then you would see that I am judging the girls that do this and then try to defend their actions even when they have abused children and animals. Yes, I’m judging the Western women…shocking I know. Of course we have BDSM and pornography in the West and I believe that those things can be perfectly safe and healthy things. I am not kink shaming anyone, and in the article I literally said that if you want to take a dump on somebody then YOU DO YOU, I don’t care.
What I care about is the abuse of animals and children that happens in these scenarios, and I would criticise animal and child abuse in ANY country. Lastly, it’s dangerous to talk about how the WEST ‘invented’ gender discrimination and domestic violence when the rates of domestic violence and gender discrimination in Gulf states is off the charts. People in glass houses…
The west did not invent domestic violence porn and all of that they just marketed it
Are you really stupid enough to think all vices and discrimination were invented in the West? This stuff has been going on since the dawn of civilization long before any countries even existed in Europe and the natives were still chasing bison in North America.
Thank you for being fair. like you said it all came from their back yard.
This whole thing is a hoax. You wrote this article in 2019 with screenshots from IG and Whatsapp that have been proven to be fake for easy clicks. You can name call all you want – like you discovered some huge story but you are miserable
I would be interested to see this ‘proof’ that you speak of 🙂 I am aware that the ‘men’ in the screenshots are not actual Emirates and that they are catfishing the girls. However, I have seen videos of the girls agreeing to do these things. Videos. Not screenshots. If you do have ‘proof’ that everything is faked then I would like to see.
Emirates is the airline company. EmiratIS are the citizens of UAE, they are only 15% of the population .
Tag the sponsor is clearly a page to expose these gold digging instamodels, prince “bin fakin”? its all a joke to show how shallow and willing to do everything for money these dreamy women are and that people shouldnt look at their pages with envy but with disgust.
Sex work is the oldest job in the world. Women have used their bodies for money and power for centuries, nothing new there. The “anonymouse comment” you have there from the one who raped a boy and did it with a dog can be written by anyone as a bullshit joke. You are asking for veryfications from people yet where is your verification that any of the things you write about are actually true? People love to shit on Dubai (joke well intended!) because of racism and jealousy.
Yes, women come to Dubai for sex. they also come to Cannes, London, Las Vegas, Bali, Shanghai etc. The Cannes film festival is for years now the biggest “escort payout” of the year, the orgies on yachts there are happening since the 70s at least. But that has never been a story as much as when Dubai gets involved. You need to askyourself why.
the videos of the girls agreeing are being sent by the girls to the guys who catfish them. Nothing actually happens, they just want to expose the women as empty money hungry people.
How about YOU provide proof that the things you write about are actually true before you demand proof from others for claiming otherwise?
Yes of course the accounts are fake, as I acknowledge in the article. The fact that these girls agree to do these things and many of them say that they HAVE done them, is proof that at least they are willing to do them and claim to have had experience.
I think the focus is on Dubai because of how depraved these stories are and how dangerous it is for women to do sex work in Dubai, not because of racism.
This is a blog to watch for sure. I think you have a really awesome writing style by the way. Very easy to read. Your blog design is so clean too! Thank you all the hard work!
Interesting article but I agree you do come of as being critical of Emriaties when you speak of them making girls disappear like it could not happen anywhere in the world. And Gender discrimination may be off the charts in the Emirates but considering the amount of effort they put into changing their culture (far less than the west has) I’d say the west may be ahead but still shockingly bad for nations who want to have a high horse on this matter.
Of course it can happen anywhere in the world when we are talking about very powerful men and sex workers but I think in Gulf states where it is illegal to even share a bedroom without being married, the risks are significantly higher. It is interesting that you seem to be of the mindset that somebody from the west should not criticise gender equality in other parts of the world just because we don’t have 100% gender equality. I think that that is an incredibly dangerous mentality.
I find this article absolutely fascinating and well written. I have been reading about this for a few years now (crazy days and nights blog, search “bani”. I’ve also seen the originals a couple years back from Tag the Sponsor. What you touched on is perfect – while we could easily talk about how messed up it is that a girl would be ok with someone shutting all over her, that’s her thing…that’s how she chooses to make money. I’m not answering for it, I’m not living with it. It is NOT ok for these girls to justify the rape of children and animals. Sure, it happens everywhere, but these girls are att
Reacted to Dubai for the money, the views, the climate, and the stigma of glamor. When I think Germany, I do not think beaches, Chanel, and Louboutins.
Couldn’t agree more. Thank you so much for commenting 🙂 Dubai is definitely associated with glitz and glam, and it is all too easy to understand why somebody would want to post pictures from the Burj while wearing a ten thousand dollar dress.
Well researched and written Dani. Shocking but not surprising. I just emailed you (hope you still got the same email address)
I actually just saw it, thank you so much for getting in contact with me! I will respond in the morning 🙂
hi all this web
I mean they did it knowing what they were doing…
You seem to be proud of your 1million$ you should also be proud of how you got them.
Agree totally!
you know what? fuck that! fuck them, let the dissaper and get raped and die.. the thing is they are horrible people, those bitches. you suck shit from an Arab ass for money and you come in your home town walking like you are a princess. I hate hypocrisy, I hate it to death! I don’t care about them girls. Actually I am envious of them. because in 5 days the make more than I can I 1 year and I feel is unfair.. I would love to travel more.
Imagine being so pathetically angry. You’re saying girls should die for doing it, yet you’re fine with the men who enjoy it 😂what a tool
Loooollll, couldn’t have said it better myself.
Hahaha what ugly hating girl wrote this article? “I’m so happy I never responded to them” hahha 100% you did or you would never have needed to justify yourself.
Yes there are girls in the world that do travel for sex. But to sit and say “every single girl on social media that isn’t promoting a brand is a sex worker” that is such an immature way of thinking and it’s very clear you don’t know a single one of these “10/10” girls. Or you would’ve been more educated on the fact.
It’s a very small amount and type of girls that actually do these things. Most girls don’t even get paid to travel, they’re just there to be there. Or sometimes they know rich men and they fly them out. There doesn’t have to be any type of sexuality involved. I still see this as escorting but I don’t think it’s fair to call everyone a prostitute. You should’ve done your research better, this article is not a good source nor is it all correct. I hope for your future in writing, you actually look into what you’re writing about.
Haha I love how you called me ugly and then said I’M hating on girls 😉 am I hating on sex workers? Nope. I said many times in the article that I am all for sex work. Perhaps you didn’t (or couldn’t?) read it.
However, am I hating on people who agree to molest children and animals for money? Yep 🙂
Also, you are supposed to use parenthesis to emphasise that something is a direct quote, and nowhere did I say that ‘every single girl on social media that isn’t promoting a brand is a sex worker.’ Nice try though. I also never used the term ‘prostitute’ as you allege, as this is a slur and I never use it.
Perhaps before criticising somebody next time, make sure that you are critiquing things that they have actually SAID rather than things you made up 😉
Thanks
I need free sex any woman and girl intrstet call me I’m in Dubai I’m from India
Dubai is the literal definition of “shit show” lmao
I met Huda Kattan (HudaBeauty) about two years ago. She was nice and sweet and I thought nothing of it. Her comments later turned into wanting to date me and have a anonymous relationship. We met up a few times for some casual fun and then her sister Mona found out and wanted to share me. I wasn’t as interested in her as I was Huda. Huda and I loved each other or I thought. She stated she wanted out her marriage because she’s more attracted to women and her husband doesn’t please her sexually. After meeting numerous times at different hotels, on Huda expense when she would travel we started sending each other sex videos and pics because we stand to be away from each other. I decided to end the relationship after two years but Huda didn’t want that and tried to bargain with me to send her more sex videos and if so she would pay me but I declined. She kept sending my messages through her Snapchat and Instagram account and that’s where she would send me her sex videos of herself and sometimes of her and her husband Chris sexing or her giving him head.
Are u fucking crazzzy????😂😂😂😂😂
Wait did that happened in real life was I’m soo shocked
You’re heavily judging these women and yes some of the levels they’re willing to go to are ethically and legally questionable to say the least. But you say nothing of these disgusting sick brutal and abusive men who take enjoyment out of abusing, humiliating and brutalising women, children and animals. You and those men seem to this that’s OK if they have the money to do so, it’s not cool. Also exposing those sex workers names and private messages is also shameful of you.
This is very true. About 4 years ago I dated a guy who was from Dubai and he told me how his friends would hire American women to shit on them. I asked him why the men would do this? He said because they find American women to be disgusting and will do anything for money and find it entertaining to be-little them because they put themselves out there to be taken advantage of. Now all these years later I see these articles coming out about it. So while people here are saying don’t judge these women, how about looking at it from the Arabs point of view and seeing how desperate these women are that they would sell their dignity and self respect for money and a few extra followers. Now that you know the reason the men do it would you as a women still put yourself in that situation?
Why do they even pay the $50,000? An Emerati can just invite them to Dubai, then lock them in a room and keep them and do whatever they want. When they are finally released if they go to the police they would go to prison. Great country. Good people.
Women!!
I think it’s disgusting what’s happening here, b you should include that ‘Tag the Sponsor’ website. Yes, sex with animals and children is utterly reprehensible, but you are encouraging the men to humiliate the girls. Both the men and the women are in the wrong, but only the women are getting exposed online?
I agree that both are to blame. If there was information available about the men doing this, I would be sharing their pictures as well for sure. Unfortunately I couldn’t find anything, for obvious reasons (rich powerful men).
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I know this post is old but I would like to comment….
Selling your body for men to use and abuse over and over is not empowering even though some women are fed the lie that it is empowering.
“The sex industry is perhaps the ONLY industry where women make more money than men (a lot more)…”
And why do you think this is? This is telling in itself..
It’s because prostitutes/porn actresses are made a commodity who’s only purpose is for perverted types of men to get off.
Prince Isad “Bin Fakin” lol.
Read the name closely. It sounds clearly like a made up name.
Is there any evidence that this is even a real account?
It sounds more like someone trolling or trying to set up and bust these Instagram girls.
Is there any evidence that these girls ever go through with the “job”?
My guess is that they make a promise, get the Saudis to transfer the money and then vanish and never go to UAE?
PC or not, I agree with you about the sexual repression over there creating perverts however the answer is not an American type of life either as sadly USA is full of perversion too with the majority of pornography coming from USA and the perverted types of Arabs are probably watching the USA porn and it is cementing their already twisted ideas and mindsets.
In my view the easy accessibility of hard porn or violent like porn globally is amplifying issues in society and “anti woman” degrading acts like peeing or pooping on them etc..
They are better adopting a European or moderate Muslim type of mentality in UAE rather than USA mentality.
Thanks for your comment.
I don’t agree at all with your opinions on sex work. If a woman chooses to sell sex then I don’t find that act inherently degrading. It isn’t necessarily ’empowering,’ but few jobs are. Stacking shelves in a supermarket may not be empowering but it is a great job for many nevertheless.
Yes, the man from the screenshots is 100% fake. He is a troll, baiting these women into agreeing to these things just to prove how far Western women will go. I am in no way saying that I believe these screenshots are from a legit man in the UAE proposing a real deal. HOWEVER, I do believe that it does happen. The fact that many of the girls on the TTS website admit to ‘having done these before’ or ‘attended these kind of parties’ is telling to me.
I never said that the UAE should be more like the USA. I am from Europe, and things are not perfect by far here, haha. But I do think that their sexually repressed culture COMBINED with the things they see Western women doing has created a very toxic thing here.
I do agree with your thoughts on hardcore porn and how it normalises very taboo and degrading acts.
Very useful information
I know I’m a bit late but I just wanted to say thank you for your very informative post. You have a lovely writing style, its very engaging! Is it wrong that I was actually laughing while reading a lot of this, like I legitimately thought there’s no way that this is real! Its absolutely mental that this is going on. I do agree with the whole “You do you” Attitude, as long and nobody, human or animal is hurt and everyone is a consenting adult then let these women make those choices for themselves. I disagree with the hate you got on this post as well, its obvious that you put a lot of thought into it. Keep it up, gonna binge read some of your other posts now 🙂
Aww, thank you so much! This really put a smile on my face haha. And nope, it isn’t bad that you were laughing, I couldn’t stop during the research! My friend and I were on the TagTheSponsor website for HOURS like “OMG look at this one!!” hahaha. Thanks again, seriously, this has made my day 😀 <3
I’m a little late to the party but this article was so interesting! I actually follow a Melbourne influencer who does lifestyle posts. I recently saw her post on the beaches of Dubai and showoff a lavish first class seat and gorgeous hotel room. i thought to myself that this was weirdly out of character especially for someone unemployed and with just less than 140k followers. This could hypothetically be a possibility about how she afforded such a random trip (Or not just speculating).
It might be controversial but i don’t have as much an issue the “bestiality” and sex with underage boys (in the given scenarios). I find the ethics interesting especially given the contemporary nature of the issue addressed here. However i recognise it can be easy (as an Australian) to obtrude through my western way of thinking; The middle eastern more naturally derived sense of right and wrong. I think also sexual repression is also a mistakingly assumed to be massive contributing factor to the existence of these fetishes but thats just my opinion.
Where i do find the underlying issue however (and i think its not addressed as much as it should be) is where the models or influencers sell or flex a lifestyle without the “shitty ;)” price tag. I think it also further contributes to the culture of primitive accumulation in a way not really seen before throughout history. I think not only about my admittedly impressionable self (as a male) but also my younger sisters and the effect that this sort of hypocritical marketing.
Could it be comparable to how elderly men from western countries go to relatively less developed countries specifically for sex minus the uncommon fetishes (in most cases). Knowing this surely one would think this is a power play rather than a more traditional sexual desire or else they would take advantage of the domestic market?
Either way i love how well written and interesting to see a topic i hadn’t really seen before be discussed in so much depth.
RE: sexual repression – I don’t think that it is the reason why so many people have fetishes per se. Plenty of people in the Western world have fetishes, even from the most sexually liberated countries. I just think that it may be a contributing factor due to the fact that when you ban something, it becomes naturally more alluring and the taboo even more so. I think the motives of the men are absolutely comparable to the older men from Western countries visiting places such as Thailand. I lived in Cambodia for 12 months and I saw a LOT of that. It’s definitely a power thing, just as with these men.
Thank you so much for reading and commenting! I hope you find some more of my posts interesting too 😀
Fascinating and disturbing article in equal measure. That is a tough one to pull off, I must say!
As someone who grew up in the UAE and having many Emirati friends, I wouldn’t for a second doubt the validity of these stories. Sure it may be a small percentage of men who are actually engaged in these nasty activities but it is actually such a closed society, that figuring out the real statistics is nearly impossible.
The locals over there are very conservative and friendly but foreigners usually don’t have the upper hand if they fall on the wrong side of the law. This makes it even more strange why any lady from the states would risk her life like that?
Moreover many of their young men have an unhealthy obsession with women that have blonde hair and blue eyes. I am not even kidding!!
By the way, since you are from Manchester, are you an United fan? I mean you simply can’t support City after writing such an article and knowing who their owners are.
Haha, why thank you!
It’s chilling to hear from people like you who have spent a lot of time there and can confirm that you don’t doubt that this happens.
Yes, I wonder why so many girls are willing to put themselves in such tricky situations as well – I don’t know if they realise how dangerous it actually is, and just how little help they would get because they are so blinded by the glitz and glamour of getting to party with rich Emiratis.
Haha, I’m not a football fan but yes, I guess it would have to be United 😛
Interesting article, unfortunately this place can get a lot darker as you are probably aware.
I will say that beastiality and what western societies consider under age sex is not necessarily the case in Middle Eastern countries. After living in these countries for over a decade, often these practises are not outlawed and if they are they can still be socially acceptable in private settings.
Calling these girls out for rape may be a stretch as you are using a western culture as your measuring stick.
Thanks so much for commenting 🙂 yeah I’m sure it can get a lot darker!
I completely understand your point; however when the children are 10 or 11 years old or when it is an ANIMAL who can’t consent, I don’t care so much for the law or for what is socially acceptable – I believe that some things are just objectively wrong, no matter what the law states.
Goddamn. And here I thought I already knew about the worst parts of UAE. I had a vague understanding of this phenomenon, but after learning more about this shit show, I’m placing UAE on my no-fly list indefinitely (at least until they get their shit together). Being a travel photographer, sure I’d miss out on capturing Dubai’s stunning city in the desert, but how my ex-girlfriend plainly put it, I can’t condone its backward customs of oppressing women and minorities.
Do you know if this is only happening in the UAE? What about other countries in the Middle East? I want to visit Jordan but I don’t want to develop a mental stereotype where I think every rich Arab enjoys defecating on women.
I really want to visit Jordan as well! To be honest, I don’t know – I have heard that Saudi royalty do this as well – the woman that I quoted in the article was talking about Saudi Arabia so if her experience is to be believed then it happens there as well. To be honest, I’m sure every country in the world has some people with a scat fetish, but this specific practice of scouting out hot girls on Instagram to fly out and shit on? It certainly seems to be a Middle Eastern thing, haha.
Wow. The comments on this article are… wild. Super interesting topic. I agree, I don’t think there is anything wrong with them doing sex work. But there is a difference between sex work and contributing to the exploitation of others, even if you are also being exploited. I’ve never really followed these instagram people who post out of this world luxury, because I’m of the opinion that no one should be that rich when there are so many poor people. I don’t like to contribute to their follower count or their platform. It’s definitely made me think about how easy it seems to be to fake being so affluent.
Completely agree, I couldn’t care less if the fetishes just involve being shat on (lol), but bringing animals and children into the mix is just wrong.
Not sure how I feel about the fact that you quoted and referenced an article which blames feminism and leftism for the rise of the Dubai Porta Potty – that article literally said that this would have never happened years ago when slut shaming was still ok…. seriously. And agreed with another comment that mentioned many tag your sponsor photos were found to be fabricated. I like the article but not your choice of sources.
I understand your concerns about the article I used – I found it despicable in parts as well, but unfortunately there is simply nothing else on the internet when it comes to this topic. All I could find was this old anti-feminist article from years ago and a few YouTube videos that didn’t provide much information. I also mentioned in the article that I understand that the Tag The Sponsor photos are fabricated – I don’t think that the men in those screenshots are actually legit, but I DO believe that the women in the screenshots THINK they are and are genuinely agreeing to perform such acts. Thus, when the women are shown to be admitting to having been to such parties before and are sending pictures of their passports to somebody that they assume is a Sheikh, it hardly seems to matter if they are being catfished or not.
Thank you for reading and commenting, I appreciate and understand your concerns 🙂
“because the bottom line is that the biggest threat to a woman’s safety is a man”
Ischemic heart disease*
Stroke*
Lower respiratory infections.
Chronic obstructive pulmonary disease*
Alzheimer’s disease and other dementias*
Diabetes mellitus*
Diarrhoeal disease.
Breast cancer*
Sorry men don’t make the list!
Great article though!
Peace
Those are threats to a woman’s HEALTH, not her SAFETY.
Safety.
mass noun The condition of being protected from or unlikely to cause danger, risk, or injury.
health
noun
the state of being free from illness or injury.
“I’m 24 years old and have 1 million dollars liquid in my bank account. I’m now retired and can have normal sex with whoever I want.’”
Are people like this woman a symptom of an overly capitalist society or what?
I am of the opinion that money is the cheapest way to pay for anything which most people subconciously also know, which is why most people are selective about what they are willing to do for money.
A person who earned 1 million dollars in this way will never have normal sex. Having normal interactions with others including sex involves a certain amount of innocence between people.
I mean, what would you do and think if you found out that the fun person you are having safe sex with used to have sex with camels and gave video consent to allow others to shit on them at parties?
As well as that, people having normal interactions with others can talk about how they earn a living with most others they meet.
“I mean, what would you do and think if you found out that the fun person you are having safe sex with used to have sex with camels and gave video consent to allow others to shit on them at parties?” this made me chuckle, haha. But you’re so right, how could they ever have normal sex and relationships ever again?!
Hi, I was wondering whether I was the only one to agree with LP just above. Your article is all about shaming and blaming the victims.
There are many holier-than-thous in the internet criticizing these girls for being “depraved” and “immoral”.
While these epithets should apply to these men initiating these crimes at 1st place!
However, when their activities go under fire, plenty of comments are horrendously racist, so at least, it’s refreshing to read you didn’t fall into that common trope.
I nonetheless find it despicable you perpetuate Tag the Sponsor’s (a bigoted, mysogynistic website) doxxing activities, e.g. exposing these poor girls pictures and contact details to the whole world to see – therefore rendering them vulnerable to cyber-bullying or real-life attacks.
Did you consider these screenshots may have been fabricated for the purpose of character assassination?
So, how hypocritical feigning concern for these girls’ safety when you’re taking over Tag the Sponsor’s witch hunt!
No matter how impossible it is to denounce the criminals (which are the rich men, not the girls, may I remind you!), it doesn’t justify exposing these girls’ identity online. And then, lecturing us about human or animal rights!
BTW, any rich men in any country can get away with murder unfortunately, as long as they have power and money. Not only in the UAE.
I don’t see these women as victims whatsoever, but yes, the article is all about shaming people who take part in paedophilia and beastiality for money. Tag The Sponsor was one of the only resources available to me so yes, while I don’t necessarily agree with everything that website or its members do, my resources were very limited. I think it’s ludicrous to compare the safety risks of a Tag The Sponsor post to the safety risks associated with what these women are doing. Being humiliated on the internet is not akin to being imprisoned in the UAE for engaging in sex work. I happen to be of the opinion that if you’re agreeing to have relations with an 11 year old child or a camel for money then you deserve to be exposed, because your actions are deplorable. And yes you’re right, rich men can get away with a lot, but unfortunately the law is on the side of these men – premarital sex, sex work etc. is ILLEGAL in the UAE. If anything happened to these girls, the law would not be on their side.
You’re missing my point here.
According to you, these girls are the main culprit for accepting to subject themselves to abuse.
Whereas the real villains are the perpetrators, from whom originate bestiality and pedophilia. They may be potential murderers as well but if these girls end up killed, they well deserved it, right?
We should be protesting against the perpetrators sick practices (the root cause of the issue).
I’m certain these girls would be happy making the same money without going through such degrading treatments.
Last, Tag the Sponsor is reliable enough to you to document the existence of porta potties, even though it is basically a cyber-bullying platform. But hey, cyber-bullying is ok, since this is nothing compared to UAE’s barbaric traditions!
I think you are missing the point actually 🙂 nowhere did I say that the girls are the MAIN culprits. You chose to assume that because this article happens to be about them. I just decided to write the article about the women who CHOOSE to do these things for money because I find it very interesting what people will do for a bit of social media fame and a free trip to Dubai. Perhaps I will write another article about the men in the future. Or you are welcome to write your own. On my platform, I chose to examine why anybody would take them up on such horrendous offers.
I’m sure they WOULD be happy making 30k and not having relations with a camel but life doesn’t work like that. You don’t just get paid 30k for a night unless you are doing some morally corrupt and illegal stuff. I could get great money for selling women into sexual slavery or selling drugs but I CHOOSE not to because those things compromise my morals. If a woman wants 30k so bad that she will abuse a child in order to get it, I will call her out for that.
Just because somebody else may be MORE to blame, doesn’t mean that these women should be able to avoid criticism.
While I have no doubt there are rich Arab sheikhs paying these Instagram girls for sex… all that “porta potty” shit is fake news. There is no “Arab sheikh” requesting that shit, but it’s just some fake pretending to be an “Arab sheikh” to expose how desperate these Instagram girls are and how low they’re willing to go. The only evidence we have of this “porta potty” shit actually happening is one woman who claims she’s done it once before. And that’s about it. Whether her story is true or not, we don’t know for sure. Who knows if there’s actually some Arab sheikh out there into kinky shit like that. But it’s definitely not a common thing like you’re making it out to be.
Besides, the very idea of a “Dubai porta potty” would be absurd if you’re familiar with Arabic or Muslim cultures. In these cultures, most people are repulsed by the sight of shit, to the point where they wash their bottoms every time they go to the toilet. It’s also considered to be a sin in Islam to engage in sodomy (anal sex), bestiality, or homosexuality. So it’s highly unlikely there’d be Arab sheikhs requesting shit like this. It’s either all made-up, or there may have been just one or several incidents of something like this happening, at best. It’s definitely not a common thing.
Ah, yes, because no Arab Sheikh went against his religion before… it’s also against Islam to drink alcohol but I suppose none of them do that either?
its more about the degradation of western women and control and power. If you’ve been in the gulf for any amount of time even in small interactions you can notice these things! And the women are not innocent either, western women who have spent time in the gulf know that they can milk the man for his money by playing into the stereotype they have of the fun sexy western woman. Sometimes the wife or wives of the man find out about his cheating but the husband family begs her to not come forward with it because it is a death sentence for him. If his wife is from a poor family or is a non gulf arab, then she has no power and they will never listen to her, and she might even face punishment for trying to tarnish the family name! If the wife is white, then they already think of her as ruined and dirty so they literally will not care. You can see how word of this never gets out unless someone decides to blow the whistle, usually the woman involved when she is far away from the gulf.
It’s not just the richest sheikhs though. Prostitution is rampant there.
While it’s not my place to get involved in what two concenting, aware adults may or may not do behind closed doors this whole culture does not surprise me.
While the rich and powerful in Gulf countries have the wealth to obtain their “premium” services, it is not limited to those with the resources.
It is known that Gulf nations and those with similar ideologies seem to traffic the highest percentage of the most “specific” fettish porn. So that shows that those without the resources of the elites have the same desires, and go through other means to get their fix. Even know in many of these countries it is actually illegal to watch or even access porn sites. I personally find it crazy to know it is still determineable to find where this shit/piss fettish porn is trafficking to if the residents are having to use a masked VPN and I’m not sure that I would risk streaming it (very normal porn compared to piss and shit) myself of I were visiting in a country with the laws such as here through fear of what could happen to me if I were caught.
However, there is where the fetish is born. Living in such a surpressive culture will result in a push back. If someone is completely deprived from a taboo subject it will leave people uneducated, unaware and curious about a new found world.
This is the same concept as young kids growing up in the UK being told they “cant get a tattoo” by their parents, going and getting a tattoo in protest.
Ofcourse when it comes to flying girls across countries the stakes are a lot higher. The digital age is a blessing for all levels of sex workers becuase as you say they can get their clients, but these girls can also be contactable and tracked 24 hours a day.
Imo, if countries with similar ideologies were a little (or a lot) more open and progressive about sex, the extreme wants would probably decrease.
I also think it’s worth noting that extreme fetishes do not just come from the elites of Arab countries. With digital era being so open we have been made aware of Pizzagate, Epstein and coconspirators, cases like Jimmy Savile to Ian Watkins have outed that those in positions of power seem develop twisted sexual fantasies alongside them. I will say for certain that there are rich investment bankers living in London, NY, HK who look for a similar service as you talk about.
Agree with all of this, and I think the last thing you said is super interesting as well…my thoughts are that in addition to sexual repression causing one to have more extreme desires, perhaps the people who have EVERYTHING and can do everything find their desires becoming more and more perverse because that which was initially ‘extreme’ ceases to do the job anymore.
I think that sex and porn can desensitise people very easily, hence one may find themselves going from teen porn to ageplay to CP to hurtcore…the desire for MORE just intensifies and is helped along by internet communities sharing content and discussing their desires with other likeminded people (the Surviving Life YouTube channel goes into stuff like this a lot).
Porn addiction and the ability to find whatever we desire on the internet (surface web or otherwise) is partly responsible for this IMO. In the case of people like Epstein, I think that money, power and the general feeling that you are invincible causes you to crave more and more. I would also argue that these people are so desensitised to ‘normal’ sex that everything other than the extreme stuff bores them.
Just my two cents, lol.
I was only here today cause I saw a video of some girl from here getting shit on by a white man for money…. And this is all the way in Africa so naturally its breaking news.
Anyways, i loved your article very much, and i dont normally engage in blogs but i enjoyed the debates here so much. Planning on checking out more of your content.
To all the people bashing her as for coming out as judgy, I’d say you’re missing out on the bigger picture here, this thing is like a cancer and its spreading fast. Just when I thought I had all the reasons not to bring my babies in this world things get more fucked up esh.
Thank you for such a lovely comment! I hope you8 enjoy some of my other posts 🙂
Girl , you give me hopes. I am ancient being, tribe leader of my people and I say : Power to you. Degenerates , they are hurting life itself .
I love you from the bottom of my heart ,
Signed
Zalmoxis
I would also like to add a judgement :
Muhammad is near me and its disgusted by you , this kind of Arabs. You would hang by the balls if you were in my time.
Signed Zalmoxis ,
With autorithy from Abū al-Qāsim Muḥammad ibn ʿAbd Allāh ibn ʿAbd al-Muṭṭalib ibn Hāshim
So many things new and if you want money you will do anything don’t ask the way if its bad or good. If you want to satisfy yourself you will pay if you are rich. Everything is in secret here both parties will not do it in public. Some don’t care.
I agree, people will do anything for money.
This is what happens when u give lots of oil to one chimpanzee and big boobs and nice ass to another.
Win-win situation.
Don’t be jealous ! 😛
Women will do anything if the price is right.
I think instagram models should do regular sex work and learn how to invest instead.
Sounds like jezebel is mad they only offered her 500$🤣 Also you’d be surprised everyone has a price. I can guarantee if i slapped you with a million cash you would cup the dog’s balls and even carry its puppies
Hello, I knew about this things and for people with good looks is actually pretty normal. I am from Madrid and I know how models and disco girl and guy image work in VIPs parties.
In this situation seeing some of the conversations, there is clearly point out what they have to do and most they agree for the cash and the cloud. Is sad how people degrade themselves for money but because the rest that doesn’t have the looks or the body, just complain or don’t like this, why posting this that doesn’t belong to them on the internet????
This is not a new thing.
When I was young I was invited in really famous football players private houses and with a lot of models. Naked, drugs everywhere… but as long as money is in between, who cares. (Phones were confiscated on the entrance of this parties)
Influencers nowadays do anything for cloud and money.
Also nowadays with all the platforms is easy to find people willing to do this.
My problem isn’t with sex work, it is when that sex work involves children, animals and all-round abuse.
Wow i can’t even type this shit is scary and to know that these girls do this is horrifying but what ia more scary is that I’m arab and to know that guys do this! And abuse not only the women they are inviting but abusing a child and ruin thier lives ( those kids will grow up doing horrible things and do the same thing they were done to in the past)
Guys don’t say that this girl who wrote the article is judging the Arabs in an Arab and its real i hate how men here look into the women like we are just a toy to play with I’m completely disgusted and not disappointed actually i want to thank the reporter who wrote this article and for warning and saying all the things that need to be said.
(also i really love your way of writing u go from joking to being serious wish u a good day and accept my bad English lol I’m not really confident about it)
Thank you so much, it is so good to hear your perspective as an Arab! And your English isn’t bad at all, please be more confident about it! 🙂
Thank you for a fabulous and informative article. I’m 52 and have always wondered what these “parties” were!! I certainly know now ha ha. If women wish to engage in such activity then that is their choice. I couldn’t agree more regarding the involvement of children, animals and rape. This makes me feel sick. Ok, these young girls can potentially make a huge amount of money, but as an older lady, I really wish they would consider the dangers involved and are putting themselves in extreme danger. I don’t know much about social media, but agreeing to meet someone in a hotel room that you’ve never met, does set alarm bells ringing for me. Thanks for the links too. This old lady is intrigued by it all and it has certainly opened my eyes.
Haha, glad I opened your eyes! 😛
I just found your article, this pandemic made me realise that those “influencers” are actually sex workers, naive me never thought about it (!), for real. But now we are in full lockdown in the UK but many “IG models” are in Dubai/Tulum/Maldives and so on and I’ve been like… why? This answers everything.
Honestly I understand how tempting it is to earn such large amounts of money in a few weeks, but I don’t agree with how do they protray their lifestyle as “model influencers”. So many young naive girls are looking up to their bodies, luxury bags and so on and is just unrealistic.
I don’t know where those girls will be in a few years, after several months of non-stop partying and dangerous sex practices. I wish some of them spoke about it.
I think it is hilarious that the gal thinks she can retire at 24 with a million dollars and have that last. What an idiot with a very big reality check coming. Luckily, as a 43 yr old male I have made my own wealth and can really retire but 280 x s what she has is something you can retire on.
Ladies you can be beautiful and have a real career this is not how you make money. My fiancee is stunning (truly and objectively) but she is also an equity partner in a London law firm. I am an exec at a Silicon Valley tech company. We have both done exceedingly well with our crypto investments and we are retiring the moment this COVID thing lifts. The point is you can be the sum of your parts (literally) and when the beauty fades and no one is paying you to do these pathetic things ,you better have MUCH more than a million bucks. Heck, I blew through a million in in 2019 just traveling back and forth to London and getting suites in place like the Ned and Nobu in Shoreditch and a few shopping trips to Bond street..